Wednesday, April 30, 2014

The Not Unbearable Lightness of Being


          I saw a beautiful picture the other night. It was a photo of girl taken during her visual therapy session.  Therapy is really important to any special needs child. Simply put.  therapy is the key to their future.  Especially in a case like Feisty Pants, where it means the difference between living and thriving.  I am always acutely aware of this.  Other parents often do other things during therapy sessions, I haunt the therapist like Banquo's ghost stalking a dinner party.  But I forget, sometimes, how amazingly profound it all truly is. Until I saw this picture.  It was a young girl with tube lights wrapped around her shoulders and in her hands. The look of awe and contentment on her face as she explored this said all that needed to be said about the beauty of discovery and hope.  So, to that end I wanted to share some down and dirty tips for cheap visual stimulation.   Any kid will like it.  All kids will benefit from the brain stimulation.  Special needs kids, well, need it.
           So to that end, cheap Christmas and holiday lights are your friend.  FP has a metal day bed.  A few holidays ago, we had an extra set of string lights, so we strung them on her bed.  She took one look once it got dark and informed her father that they would NEVER be coming down.  She loves them, and it is great for brain.  And as a bonus, Dinky Pants will happily nap on her bed if turn the lights on. Heck, he will happily lie awake on her bed with these lights on.  We splurged and replaced the originals with a better led set after Christmas.  (Best 5 bucks I ever spent.)  The tube lights can even be held by kids.  Wait til the after Christmas sales and stock up.
             Dollar stores are great places for things like glow sticks and glow in the dark arts and crafts items.  I've probably kept more dollar stores in business just buying those kinds of things.  Glow sticks are cheap and awesome, and you can do fun things like cut one open and empty into a jar with glitter (shake well) for awesome fairy lanterns on summer nights.  I've heard there is away to make glow bubbles but others have reported that it does not work. (So if you have figured out to successfully mix bubbles and glow sticks, hit me up in the comment section.)  Bubbles themselves are AMAZING visual stim for kids.  They are iridescent and move slowly.  Nowadays you can get flavored, scented, colored, and even hard to pop touchable bubbles really cheap.  You want uber cheap?  Make you own.  Water and dish soap and touch of glycerin is all you need for one awesomely fun afternoon.  And if anyone asks you why you wasting time blowing bubbles, you can kindly explain you are being an AWESOME parent by providing fun, memories and brain stimulation all in one fell swoop.
             Sparklers are great too.  But illegal in NY so I won't tell you that you can go right across the border into PA and find fireworks stores and convenience stores selling them everywhere. Nope, that would be against the rules.  You won't find me telling you that FP thinks they're awesome or that we do off and on all summer or that the local cops just see her looking adorable in Zippy (her wc) and laughing at Goo holding a lit sparkler and just smile and drive on.  That would be wrong of me.
             But I will tell you that visual stimulation is probably the most fun part of carrying her therapies over into our day to day life.  All those Christmas lights and shiny flashy things.  All those great trippy toys from the stoner section at the mall.  All those fun toys you wish you play with as a grown up without looking like you're high or a fool.  When you have kids, you get to play with those all over again and still tell yourself you're being a responsible grown up.  After all, we need to teach our kids how to explore their world.  At least, that's what I tell the neighbors.

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